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"And one uncle Zhang’s kind that my father walks. The whole family strolled in the bookshop of Changdian on the Spring Festival one year, my father brought
Body-guard me and it the half li far when throwing out at mother,it make we the mother and daughters unable to watch nothing, absorbed in drawing the straight neck
,Live as one Liang of only dull very beginning goose. Four eyes search for the front ceaselessly, has feared for two times and walked and gone by chance. Came back home,
I mother take place one temper greatly, say and will not go together with him no longer in the future. My father is without demur, the whole face is accompanied and smiled.
My mother gets back to the bedroom, he, with reaching the bedroom; My mother hides into the study, he, with reaching the study; Until cool down.
" Pan Su listens to a few words of mine, slightly feels and consoles oneself. A lot of defect of the man’s all over the world originally, was a mould
" knock " Come out.

We, it is all right to continue the south. I can’t help asking: "Aunt Pan, where do we go like this? "

"go the Western Returned Scholars Association (  Have changed into a cultural club of CPPCC)  ,Uncle Zhang likes eating Western-style food.
"

From after by river banks south, nip I because it if meaning, regard as sea, amount to by five stop from here of mileages at least. Lead to purposes nearby
The bus of the ground, why do not we take the car? I think so, do not dare to say, follow obediently in the mouth
Behind uncle Zhang’s colt, are walking, is walking.

Amitabha, went to at last. We just stepped into the door, the man in the Western Returned Scholars Association Western food restaurant waited upon and greeted
Come up. It seems, they all recognize one married couple. After telling several sentences, cold dish, soup dish, hot dish
, the bread, butter, jam are served sequentially. 

 

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it’s time to die and die (3)   
One American friend go back guest high school of state participate in, graduate the alumnus had a get-together the 10th anniversary, the greatest thoughts and feelings are after coming back, high schools has the " coolest " era Person,now it is " the comfortable " since it is . In the American high school, the ones that teased girl the most coolly and most are those athletes who can gain applause. Only in the past 10 years, the hero who can exercise magic powers in the same year, is nowadays treated at alumnus’ party coldly; Those persons studying conscientiously, now but the will is spoken with confidence proudly and fully. Cheering squads of those years person, " shift one’s love to another person " too now ,Enclosing " the bookworm " Rotate. 10 years, time passed, the manners and morals of the time changed completely. This is the deep sigh that that friend sends out. 
No matter Chinese or Americans, the love of parents is all the same all over the world! The child wants to be in charge of, each of parents can follow one’s own judgement to determine. Whether in U.S.A. or in China, the happiness of enjoying childhood is right, individual freedom is absolutely needed. However, the ones that exist in game rule in the society, fair. Whether the child can be played under this rule smoothly in the future, depend on parents to a great extent. If parents are confused and neglecting, may be on " die " Child future. 
After many children grow to manhood, do not train their job consciousness to cannot help but feel to parents deeply. Among them, the most sorry one is that parents can not be " in charge of " effectively as a child OK they. I contact many foreign students that come to U.S.A. to study, they all thank parents for " in charge of " at the crucial momenting very much They,it make by ones that have today pride they just. 
Parents can’t impose one’s own hope on the child, the child should enjoy happy childhood. The new one "  Emperor’s new clothing theory "  Unify the whole country on various media openly and legally nowadays. It’s a pity, most parents are practising, fair and sensible and legal, also benefit the nation and the people egoistic " long to see the son succeed in life " Sound of nearly keeping silent of thought. 
Give to the kindergarten at the child of Forth Five-Year Plan Period years old, give the child six or seven years old and study in the primary school, require children to study in the middle school, hope the child is educated in the university, all that parents " force " one’s own hope On child, " die " Child childhood "  Happy " Peremptory behavior. 
A lot of people are right "  The happiness of childhood "  Sum, to " humanization " Understanding contrary to basic demand of the civilized society, disobey as societies modern, far fall behind in the advanced competition that is globalized. 
Every state of U.S.A. "  The law of compulsory education "  Stipulate, the child of 6 to 16 years old must go to the school to study, or " go to school at home " in a planned way ,Accept the education of same educational level. If has not gone to school, parents should be sued, the legislation is all complete " not respecting " The child’s personal will, it is " happy in childhood " to deprive children by force Embodiment. It consider a lot of child like, go to school at all, unwilling reading study, like natural instinct that bear hardships. However, these are " rude " "force "  The behavior is all thought by the civilized society to be rational to be legal; Even as for,as this the in implementation uncivilized, unreasonable and illegal. It is obvious, force children to accept the adult’s hope, force the adult’s will on child, not all backward, uncivilized and inhuman behaviors. On the contrary, if know the child " non-performance " obviously "happiness childhood "  Will cause depression and failure all one’s life, the ones that should cause individual, family in the future are long-term painful, lead to the fact social whole quality is reduced, should cause the society to be unstable, and even is harmful to society, why want Qi Ren satisfied and brief childhood still "  Happy " The woolen cloth? 
The adult does not instruct children how to choose and lead to success, and have the right to choose to fail for the child? ! 
 

Geng DongLiang gets on the third floor. The door of room 304 is the half a one that is closed. Geng DongLiang stands at the gate, has smelt mixing foul smell of shoe-pad, socks and shorts inside the bedroom. Inside the smell is all youthful secretion. Geng DongLiang has fallen into and cherished the memory of once smelling this whiff of smell, it makes him have a kind of outstanding sensitivity to the life in the past that this kind cherishes the memory of, every little bit have whom person who die can’t chase greatest to lose. Shoe-pad and smell of the socks make Geng DongLiang’s depression more and more numerous and disorderly, is mixed with a great deal of distracing thoughts of going back on one’s word and feeling self-humiliation etc.. Geng DongLiang holds the door frame with hands, holds oneself, say anything and can’t reveal this kind of mood in front of classmates. Geng DongLiang prepared one’s own smile well, pushed away and opened the door, just ran into 14 eyes once entering, 14 eyes have stared at over him together, if one, absorbed, with fixed attention. Geng DongLiang goes over to left leaving the bed of the window straight, that is his bunk, he sits down, pinches a colored plastic string bag in the hand with a buttocks. 
Have covered a pair of big earphones on the eldest’s head, is listening to the music. Having seen Geng DongLiang coming back, the eldest says to Geng DongLiang: "Old six, should ask us to drink? " He has covered the earphone, the sound of speaking is special, big and washes. Dedicated to lift the head bright in the east, put up with their temper carefully, their face seems that need comforting even more than oneself. Geng DongLiang says: "What is drunk? Is there anything easy to drink? " The old sight of five is moved over from a magazine, say: "The brothers are glad for you, you accompany the brother several drunk once. " Geng DongLiang stands up, has want a cigarette from second of the upper berth, has ordered and smoked a big mouth, violent and deep, chock, live in, the cigarette if one maos of brush fill in the chest, can neither swallow nor vomit either. Such a bad feeling seem the wine conciliate only. Geng DongLiang appreciated the cigarette while setting about, said loudly suddenly: "A person lends 50 yuan to me, brothers drink. " Old to eight dig earwax in bed, where does it dig one ear mouth aslant every side. Old eight says: "Do you borrow the money from us? You pretend too too, we ask you to calculate simply. " Geng DongLiang hears this words but smiles, Gao Sheng says: "Idol Cheng yet, I of brother, brother I do not have host of get rich. " The eldest takes the earphone, jump off the bed, connect the bright words of the east dedicatedly and sink the lower face and say: "Have, mass seizure and eating of food in the homes of landlords tonight, each one lend 50 he, seven first people, brother of we, draw 50 more, I do not believe that can not have a try befuddledly at several hundred yuan – -Who drunk brother I ask he both ends emit dung son Tang tonight. " 
Eight people are supporting with one’s hand the normal university of getting back to shoulder to shoulder. Get back to bedroom dedicated east so on as to vomit soon, one is vomited and vomited. Always the previous cigarette a little bigger, found out each one’s lunch-box, caught one’s own vomit with their own lunch-box. The third has not vomited. Old stool withdraw ears of him shake several hard, third stem neck all vomit. Host of old their vomit are covered properly with another basin, arrange in a rowly, have stood akimbo and leant on and shouldered the door. There is only my light of the light of corridors inside the bedroom, always a cigarette a little bigger, see them lying stiffly on the bed, always is said greatly: " I hold your mother, hold you on Monday, hold you on Tuesday, " The eldest points to the drunkard in a room, keep holding until Sunday since Monday. Then, the eldest seals the upper face, has cried, the eldest lies down bed, ask oneself loudly, "is your his mother’s ability of some time boiled to the end? ! " 
Dedicated the next morning the bright head of the east was terribly painful. It has almost already been the second class in the morning, he has been getting empty for a long time inside the bedroom while waking up. The bedroom looks like an inferior hotel, messy and dirty, the smell of the vomit has floated. Geng DongLiang has been washed and gargled hurriedly, but find the vomiting trace of the cuff when leaving. Geng DongLiang picks up Xiao Fang’s mirror of one side, has looked oneself over carefully, the sight in the mirror lets his mental state at this moment be in a more trance. Drunk the face after lying demonstrates the terrible situation after drinking, is suffused with out blue and green light, decadent and unable. This is drunk sequela, any fluid is washed not to go. The far vomit than the cuff of such a complexion is more striking. Geng DongLiang has given up scrubing the hope of the cuff. But have a headache terribly. He go out of corridor, as the sun the sun for morning. 
Dedicated on that Chinese ilex road to meet with the bright jade tablet at last bright in the east. There is a distance from this road to dormitory area of teaching and administrative staff, Geng DongLiang always winds from here to the front door. The bright jade tablet is coming up from that side of the holly in one’s face, his black and white hair seems particularly striking above the holly, Geng DongLiang nearly squats while seeing hoarily, cat’s waist, the ones that utilized the holly concealed to climb effectively and retreated back. He sees the gray hair of the bright jade tablet since his going far gradually at one’s side, the dancing furiously of and pit of the stomach seems to begin at this time. Geng DongLiang squats there, inattentive – -Why live more and more as the thief?    

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Promise, it is one of the foundation stones of the real love. Concrete and deep commitment, even if can’t guarantee the emotion relation is plain sailing, will play and act on greatly too. One will concentrate attention at the beginning of a certain thing, it may be very limited that its emotion is put into, but as time goes on, he (she) Should put into more emotions, otherwise, the emotion relation will be moved towards disintegrating sooner or later, or is in the superficial, fragile state all the time. Take I as an example, I before marrying the ceremony, have any unusual feeling, it is very calm to behave all the time. Gradually, I feel nervous and even some shiver, even does not remember the course of the wedding, and anything happening subsequently. For some time, I have adapted to this people’s growing and changing slowly, put more emotion into the family, at last 

Go out of the state of falling in love, has found the motive power of the true love. Not usually getting on very well, after bearing children, we only put into more emotion, the instinct stage that can produce a male heir to continue the family line from biology, grow into benevolent parents with sense of duty. As to the emotion relation based on love, pay whole-heartedly, it is the indispensable precondition. Only the lasting emotion relation, could make intelligence ripe constantly. If we lack sense of safety is not merely constantly anxious to abandon by birth, and feel that has an uncertain future, intelligence can not be ripe forever. Couple in the face of rely on and independence, handle and submit to, freedom and question such as being loyal and steadfast, without solution, magnify question, live in suspect, the frightened shade all day, it is unable to find the outlet calmly, can make the emotion relation belong to and destroy finally.

Promise, can bring sense of safety to a person. However, most schizophrenia patients are all difficult to promise. Let the patient promise, it is usually essential links. Wonder how to realize "  Concentrate attention "  ,It is unwilling to make any commitment too, it is very apt to cause the psychology to lack proper care. The persons who lack proper care of passivity personality are unwilling to promise, even has lost the ability to promise, they are not the risk fearing to be promised, but may know at all how to promise. They may not love, has not got the commitment that parents love from parents during one’s childhood, so until they grow to manhood, have never had experience that is promised.

The unregulated patient of the neural sense can understand the meaning promised, but the extreme one is tense and frightened, make them lose motive force promised. In their childhood, most of parents have love, can let them experience the sense of safety promised to bring, later on because death of appearing, abandon or other reasons, this kind of sense of safety declares that stops, it is unable to be responded to make it promise, become painful memory, they fear to make the new commitment from this. Once the patient stands the wound of soul, unless set up ideal emotion relation, otherwise the wound is difficult to heal. Sometimes, as the psychologist, I think of it takes the patient that treat for a long time to receiving each time, uneasy in the heart. After all, want to enable and treat going on smoothly, the psychologist must establish good relation with the patient, like the parents rich in the love treat children, go to care about the patient wholeheartedly, and can’t give up halfway, could open the patient’s heart in this way, suit the remedy to the case.

It is cold, and introverted that Miss Rachel 27 years old suffers from the serious sex, the words and deeds are too overcautious. As soon as she has had a transient marriage, she has divorced, come to consult me. She tells me, because the sex that can’t accept her is cold, husband Mark and she part company with. Rachel says: "I know my question. I originally think, it is a good thing to marry Mark. I hope he makes my soul warm, let me change to some extent, but I have thought by mistake. This is not a question of mark. With which man unable to let I fun of person who experience together, I want, find fun from sexual love either. Though I think sometimes that should change, live like normal people, but unfortunately, I am used to the present state. Though mark often reminds me, let me try hard to relax down, however, even if I can accomplish, do not want to change the present state either. "

In the treatment goes on until the third month, I remind Rachel: She comes to go to a doctor each time, has not taken on the seat yet, will say at least that " thanks " twice —The first time "  Thanks " ,It is we, when the waiting room was just met; The second time "  Thanks " ,It is when of the office that just came into me her.

Rachel asks: "This have anything, OK? "

"It is good. " I answer, " however, so many gifts of yours are unnecessary. By the look of your behavior, it is piece that lack confidence, think one’s own unwelcome guest just. "

"But actually I was a guest, here was your clinic after all. "

" right, " I say, " but don’t forget, you have already paid in order to treat. Period of time and this space belong to you, you have one’s own rights, you are not a guest. Office, waiting room, have the time that we coexist, all these belong to you. You have paid and bought them, they belong to you, why want me in order to belong
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The
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Between the adults, it is interdynamic not to have at all, has not exchanged. The third way is to pretend to be listened attentively to, in fact is still busy with one’s own work, it think one’s own worry,last every one "eh, " Or " excellent " ,So as to deal with the child. The fourth way to listen attentively to selectively, child talk about some seem important thing, parents will pick up one’s ears, centralized attention, attempt to obtain the most information with the efforts at least. Certainly, most parents may not be crossed and specially trained, perhaps not have good choice ability, so, will usually omit a lot of important information. The last way, is certainly every sentence listening attentively to the child conscientiously, understand their meaning as much as possible.

Among the above-mentioned five listening way, time and energy that parents pay, we can say one large than first kind. Perhaps you thought, what I recommended was the last way, because it can reflect parents’ love and concern more to children, however, you have thought by mistake. First of all, the child six years old is very talkative, if listen to their every sentence, parents have no time to do a good job of other things. Secondly, listen attentively to hard and analyze all the child’s words conscientiously, this will make parents feel all pooped out. Last, what the child six years old said, mostly dull and dull, listen attentively to all day, will only let you feel barren and be bored. You had better synthesize the above five ways, weigh and use selectively. Sometimes, it is necessary to let the child shut up big directly, especially when they chatter. They continuous firing stop saying, can let parents divert one’s attention only, unable to finish other thing attentively. When you and others speak, the child may interrupt on purpose, express their hostility, or bring your attention on purpose. In most cases, the child six years old does not have clear intention, often just speak for speaking, might not need listening of you, notice even if they talk to oneself, can experience the fun among them. But sometimes, the child wishes eagerly to be close to parents, need parents to listen to them speaking. In this case, what the child needs is not exchanged by speech, but and the intimate sense among parents, so is enough if pretend to listen attentively to. In fact the child can realize too, parents are listening attentively to selectively sometimes, but this kind "  Listen attentively to the principle "  ,Will make them feel satisfied too. The child six years old, can already accept this kind of listening rule, and in a large number of words of theirs, only a little part needs parents’ concern and response. One of task on it is the most crucial in parents, it hear but with between not hearing,make by appropriate choice, find the best equalization point, meet child’s demands as much as possible.

This kind of " equalization point " It is very difficult to master. Though it is originally limited to listen attentively to the time that the child speaks, a lot of parents are unwilling to pay energy to be used for listening attentively to during this limited time. They may think, pretend to listen attentively to or at most listen attentively to selectively, it is real listening. This is just cheated oneself, the purpose is to conceal it lazily. Real listening, how transient it is no matter time, demand sizable efforts. First of all, it needs listeners to stretch every nerve. You impossible the same "  Listen attentively to " Others speak, go, busy with work other thing. Parents should put other things on one side, really use the time when is listened attentively to for the child, and it must be the child’s time. Unwilling to set other thing free, get you good mood or other thought,etc., mean you are unwilling to really listen attentively to. Secondly, set attention free get six year old speech of child, even more than listen attentively to one speech efforts that need. Six year old speech of child law usually, language gurgle gushes out like spring sometimes, stop and repeat in a large amount sometimes, furthermore make you very difficult to focus attention. In addition, the thing that the child said, it is difficult to make the adult interested lastingly; But outstanding speech family can make the audience concentrate one’s attention, listen to their speech conscientiously. In other words, listen attentively to the child six years old and speak, it is usually quite uninteresting, it is very difficult to focus attention for a long time, if you can accomplish, the action of the real love. In fact, without love, parents are difficult
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